“When dealing with death caused by a traumatic event, it is important to recognize that the trauma must be processed before grieving can take place.” (Rando, 1993)
- when the survivor is < 30 years or > 65 years
- when young children are living at home
- the circumstances of death are one of the following : Long illness (over 18 months),a sudden death, a violent death and the idea that death could have been prevented.
- when the client experiences lack of support
- when concurrent losses have happened within the past year : the death of another close person, a divorce, a job loss, a retirement, children leaving home, a major surgery or illness.
- when the quality of relationships is conflicted, ambivalent or highly dependent.
- when there is a history of health problems.
- when there is a history of poor coping skills in past crises.
- when you lost a child : any age (includes reproductive loss, still death, adult children)
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